What do you mean rubbing it in her face, showing a lot of gall? You know what sending that thank you note was? That was class, something rarely seen from robbers these days, in the age of cyber thievery.
Yea it sucks having your money stolen and having to go through this whole ordeal, but at the end of the day the credit card company is going to cover the losses, and you end up with a lovely bouquet and the happiness that comes from being genuinely thanked. And at least you know it didn't go to something like rent or baby diapers. Whoever stole it looks like they truly enjoyed a fun weekend with your money, and that has to make you feel at least a little good inside.